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Understanding Emotional Rollercoasters Can Empower Us to Navigate Life’s Ups and Downs

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We’ve all been on an emotional rollercoaster at some point. One minute, you’re soaring with joy after nailing that job interview or acing an exam. Next, you’re crashing into the depths of sadness after a brutal breakup or family crisis. Our emotions can swing wildly from one extreme to the next, sometimes for no apparent reason at all. It’s an unavoidable part of the human experience.

Think about the last time you got irrationally angry at a loved one over something trivial like them forgetting to take out the trash. Later, once you calmed down, you realised how ridiculous it was to blow up the way you did. We’ve all been there, unable to control those intense surges of emotion that can turn us into someone we barely recognise.

On the flip side, remember how elated you felt after accomplishing a long-awaited goal, like getting into your dream school or buying your first home? That euphoric high made everything seem perfect, at least for a little while. But inevitably, that peak emotional state fades back into the daily routines and stresses of normal life.

What causes the ups and downs?

So what causes these extreme emotional highs and lows? A lot of it has to do with brain chemistry and hormones. Significant events, both positive and negative, can trigger releases of neurotransmitters like dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, and endorphins that produce intense feelings of pleasure, love, bonding and even pain relief.

At the same time, stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline cause our bodies to go into fight-or-flight mode during angering or scary situations. Our hearts race, our muscles tense up, and we can make rash decisions fueled by pure animalistic emotion rather than rational thought.

Our emotional state is also heavily influenced by sleep, diet, exercise and overall lifestyle factors. If you’re exhausted from lack of sleep, hangry from skipping meals, or feeling crummy from a lack of physical activity, you’re simply more prone to emotional outbursts and mood swings.

The impact on mental and physical health

All this emotional turbulence doesn’t just affect our state of mind; it can seriously impact our physical health too. Chronic stress, fear, anger and sadness cause cardiovascular issues like high blood pressure, heart disease and even heart attacks. It also weakens the immune system, leaving you more vulnerable to illness.

On the positive side, experiencing emotions like joy, love, gratitude and serenity has been shown to provide a host of health benefits. It lowers inflammation, boosts immune function, improves heart health and even aids in longevity. Let’s not forget the intangible perks of more energy, better sleep, higher self-esteem and an overall sunnier outlook on life.

So in an ideal world, we’d simply choose to embrace the good feelings and let go of the bad ones, right? If only it were that simple…

Finding balance through mindfulness

While we can’t control when certain situations trigger intense emotional responses, we do have some say in how we respond to and manage those feelings. One highly effective tool is the practice of mindfulness.

Through meditation, deep breathing, and grounding exercises, mindfulness teaches you to stop and take a moment to experience your emotions without judgement. Instead of instinctively lashing out or beating yourself up, you learn to calmly observe and sit with those difficult feelings until they inevitably pass.

You also gain perspective on just how impermanent and ever-changing our emotional states really are. Reminding yourself that “this too shall pass” can make intense moods feel much less overwhelming and all-consuming in the moment.

Mindfulness cultivates patience, emotional regulation and, most importantly, self-compassion during life’s ups and downs. After all, we’re all just imperfect humans riding the rollercoaster together.

Eleanor Greenwood is a passionate writer with a keen interest in psychological resilience and the intricacies of human emotions.

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