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Relationship Advice for Women: What Turns a Guy On?

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Today, we’re talking about a topic that is bound to pique your interest: the 10 most significant turn-ons that drive men wild. Before we jump into this exciting discussion, I want to give you a quick heads-up. This post contains some mature content. If you are under 18, it’s best to close this page and step away. We are about to uncover these powerful turn-ons, and I guarantee you are going to find them intriguing.

Just a little reminder, these tips are primarily for those already in a relationship, not during the early stages of dating. So, let’s get started.

Embrace your sexiness

Now, my first tip is to embrace your sexiness. Picture yourself confidently rocking your own skin. It’s an undeniable fact that being comfortable in your own skin emits a magnetic Sexual Energy that captivates men. This is all about understanding that sex is a normal, healthy aspect of a thriving relationship. It’s not something dirty or shameful. Building on this foundation will set the stage for the rest of these captivating turn-ons.

Take the lead

Now, my second tip is to take the lead. Be the one who initiates sexual encounters. When you take the initiative and communicate your desires to your partner, it’s like turning on the switch of attraction. Remember, though, that it’s not about making him feel like you’re doing him a favour. It’s about expressing your genuine desire for intimacy.

Genuine attraction

Now, my third tip is about genuine attraction. Let’s talk about when you’re absolutely in love with your man. He can sense that. You know, better yet, express it verbally or through body language. That feeling of being genuinely desired is an incredible turn-on. Whether you are subtly touching his arm or boldly whispering in his ear about how irresistible he looks, you are setting the stage for fireworks.

The power of scent

Now, my fourth tip is about scent to remember, or the power of scent. A woman’s fragrance has a remarkable ability to spark attraction. She can absolutely make heads turn when she walks by, smelling amazing. You two can make a lasting impression. On the flip side, if you are not smelling so great, it can be quite a turn-off. So, use the power of your scent to your advantage.

Spice up the routine

Now, my fifth tip is to spice up the routine. Variety is the spice of life, everybody says, and that applies to relationships too. If your usual spot of romance is the bedroom, why not switch it up? Experiment with different locations, like the living room or the shower. And hey, there is an entire world of creative positions out there to explore. Trust me, you won’t run out of options.

Playful biting

Now, let’s move on to my sixth tip: playful biting. It’s time to unleash your inner playful side. A little nibble here or a bite there – it’s all in good fun. Just remember, it’s playful, not painful. This adds an exciting edge to your connection, stirring up attraction and igniting sparks.

His clothes, your seduction

Now, onto my seventh tip: his clothes, your seduction. Here’s a unique twist – wear his clothes. I don’t mean his gym shorts. Think along the lines of his shirt, preferably in a sultry way. It’s a visual statement of your connection. Trust me, it’s incredibly appealing.

The art of striptease

Next, let’s discuss the art of striptease. It’s a classic for a reason. This technique works wonders because it builds up anticipation, cranking up the attraction metre. Just remember, confidence is key here. Your comfort in your own skin will determine the success of this sensual performance.

Express yourself

Moving on to my ninth tip: express yourself. Communication is a powerful tool, even in the bedroom. Don’t hold back on those vocal cues that show your appreciation and enjoyment. Men absolutely love knowing that they are hitting all the right spots, both figuratively and literally.

Using sex toys

Let’s now discuss using sex toys like fleshlights, dildos, strap-ons and male sex machines that can bring a new level of excitement to your intimacy. These toys can ignite passions and open doors to thrilling experiences that both you and your partner can explore together.

There you have it, folks – the 10 most irresistible turn-ons for men. I’m genuinely curious. What’s something that drives you wild when it comes to your partner? Share your thoughts in the comments below. I always love hearing from you. If you found this text helpful, consider sharing it with your loved ones. And if you haven’t subscribed yet, make sure to hit that button. Thanks for tuning in, and I’ll catch you soon.




Zuella Montemayor did her degree in psychology at the University of Toronto. She is interested in mental health, wellness, and lifestyle

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