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How to Keep Your Marriage from Going Sour

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No matter how long you have been married to your spouse, there will come a time when you feel as though your relationship has lost its spark. Married couples will fight more frequently and, at times, become bored with each other

Letting these issues worsen can put your marriage on the path to falling apart. Before that happens, there are a lot of things you can do to save your relationship and rekindle the romance you once had with your partner. If you think your marriage is on shaky ground right now, here are a few tips to help keep it from eroding completely:

Make communication a central part of your relationship

Communication doesn’t just happen when you want your partner to do something for you. It also gives the floor for developing empathy, trust, and respect. Despite the years you have been together, you will realize that there’s still more for you to know about your spouse than you initially thought. Look for every opportunity to have intimate conversations. Talk about future goals or past experiences. Make sure to listen to your spouse and be conscious of the tone of your voice and your choice of words. You should also talk about the things that matter to them and give them enough space to voice their opinions. From there, you will have a better understanding of your spouse’s personality.

Set a time for an intimate get-together

Apart from having a conversation with your spouse, you should also set aside quality time each week. It doesn’t have to be spent at a fancy restaurant over glasses of champagne. You can watch a movie together, or go on a long road trip. Be creative and look for date night ideas you haven’t tried before. Your spouse will appreciate you even if they aren’t the adventurous type. One thing’s for sure, don’t settle for the bare minimum. Your efforts go a long way in making your partner feel that they matter. 

Find room for compromise and settle conflicts right away  

Many relationships fail simply because both partners refuse to resolve a problem. You can’t shove a conflict under the rug, thinking it will just disappear. It only causes the both of you to bottle up your emotions and bring up past problems when you get into another big fight. It would be better to sit down and resolve the problem right away. It’s a time when you need to set your ego aside and solve this as a team. With this, you also prevent future conflicts from brewing and come out with a stronger bond

Find a good marriage counselor

If you feel as though your marriage has reached a dead-end, you may want a professional marriage counselor to intervene. This is crucial if you have dealt each other a great deal of emotional damage which causes the both of you to lose respect for each other and refuse to communicate what you feel. Rely on counseling providers like The Truism Center in Grand Rapids to help you make a breakthrough and restore the compassion you have for each other. 

Relationships experience storms, but couples can always find a way to survive and reach tranquil seas. Using the tips above should be a good start.

Dennis Relojo-Howell is the managing director of Psychreg.


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