Extraordinary components of social life are compliments. These create more positive energy that makes things magical in life. The vibes and atmosphere of the feelings dispose the people to each other. It is just as important in the way we receive them and, of course, give them away. Everybody needs to know how to do both, either verbally or limns a gentler vibe or a smile.
Speech cultivates the good
Praiseworthy situations and efforts are noticed, deriving the compliments that mark awareness and consciousness. Henceforth, it is a must to cultivate the good developments surrounding us. Noticing the situations worthy of applause, it is important to convey appreciation in words by speaking. In other words, the compliment needs to be put forth in spoken form. People deliver praise and benefit from the objects of compliments, but being the giver also provides benefits. The receiver knows that they are noticed so learning is valued. Therefore, it is a powerful motivator in striving to do more of what brings praise from others.
Looking at the good qualities in the world around us boosts our moods all by itself. Plus, it is a kind of cognitive attentive training of spreading positivity and delivering the positive happy effects to others that bounce back on us, ramping up the positive atmosphere we breathe.
Little worthy moves
Compliments are the little gifts of love. These just tell a person that they are worthy of notice and are demanded in a situation. While being the sincere reflections of what we think freely and without coercion, these can sometimes backfire if they are not genuine, making the speaker untrustworthy and raising suspicious motives. And faux flattery is usually highly transparent, leading to undermining the whole relationship.
Complimenting is an art apart from being a skill, and it is most fundamental, without any expertise, to do it well with a condition being genuine. Compliments, in fact, are the finest tools for acquiring more social skills for immediate and great returns. Social lubricants such as flow of conversation and advanced communication enhance the receptivity, thus fostering the flow of conversating with others.
The world can be a better place and everyone on the earth needs to learn how to compliment and thus, for starters, they must be genuine. The more specific the compliments are, the better it is to handle the further verbosity between the conversation. Thus enabling us to handle the questions brilliantly and refocusing on the plans with discussions.
Fabulous and easy
Incidental and forthright compliments work best with clarity of space and delivery of praise with a statement. Complimenting on looks makes people feel fabulous and helps them be at ease when carrying themselves in society. But in situations where appearance isn’t an issue, compliments may not play a vital role. So, telling a colleague that she looks fabulous is always good in a good way, except in a meeting about strategic planning or anything else because a positive compliment is powerful enough to transform feelings.
Make a difference and be the radiator to magnify the strengths.
Jashan Jot Kaur is a researcher at Punjab Agricultural University, Ludhiana.