To celebrate International Friendship Day and to highlight the importance of companionship, Lilian Faithful, a charity with over 75 years’ experience providing care for older people, is shining a light on their cycling project affiliated with the “Cycling Without Age” initiative. The residents have also shared their advice for the younger generation on how to develop and keep friendships.
The initiative was created to combat loneliness, a prolific issue for those over 75. According to Age UK, more than 2 million people in England over the age of 75 live alone, and more than a million older people say they go over a month without speaking to a friend, neighbour, or family member.
Cycle rides and care homes might not seem to go hand in hand, but thanks to the trishaw donated to Lilian Faithfull Care from Signal, residents from the care homes are able to rediscover the fun of a bike ride and enjoy time with a friend.
Olive, from Astell House, said: “I felt like the Queen! It was wonderful! I saw bits of Cheltenham I’ve never seen before!”
It’s not just enjoyable for the residents, though; one member of staff said: “It is such a positive experience and it prompts all sorts of conversations and memories. I always come back from a ride having smiled the whole time.”
As well as bike rides, Lilian Faithfull offers adult day care at their Secret Garden Hub, where guests can go to socialise and make new friends in the local community. They offer many activities, including sing-alongs, quizzes, painting, and even tai-chi! A delicious afternoon tea is on offer, along with lunches – fish Fridays are very popular.
Apparently, around 11% of children aged 10 to 15 years, said that they were “often” lonely. A lot of the residents at Lilian Faithfull Care have had many years of experience dealing with friendships, and have provided some advice for the younger generation on how to develop, and keep friendships.
Advice for the younger generation on how to make friends and keep them
- Remember special occasions
- Mix with other people
- Join a club
- Be supportive
- Always be polite and well-mannered
Established in Cheltenham in 1946, Lilian Faithfull Care remains true to its founding principle of improving lives through dedicated care. The charity serves over 300 residents and day guests across six care homes and an adult day care hub, offering a range of services from day care to nursing, with expertise in dementia and end-of-life care.
In 2023, the “Home for Life” pledge supported elderly residents’ fees with an impressive amount of £2.5 million. The charity’s commitment to efficient operations is evident in its allocation of resources, with 97p in every £1 spent going directly towards the day-to-day care of residents.
