When Boris Johnson permitted exercise with members of different households, Marion Tomlin and Debbie Nunn decided to use the newly relaxed rule to Saint Francis Hospice‘s advantage.
Donning the Hospice’s T-shirts and equipped with the famous orange balloons, the friends set off from Dagenham East to Tower Bridge on a sponsored walk. What should have been a 12-mile trip turned into 14 miles, with Marion laying the blame firmly at the feet of Google Maps. ‘It took us around the houses!’ she explained.
They walked non-stop for six hours and raised a whopping £1,155 through their Just Giving page. The pair have been fundraising for Saint Francis Hospice since 2012, after the charity cared for Marion’s husband, Chris.
When Chris started passing blood, tests revealed that he was living with kidney cancer. At just 51 years old, Chris was given only three years to live. Determined to help others during his treatment, Chris underwent clinical trials after surgeons removed his kidney.
Chris also began to visit Pemberton Place: the Hospice’s social hub for people living with life-limiting illnesses. It’s there where he would paint pictures in art therapy classes, and gift them to Marion.
In another typically unselfish moment from Chris, he insisted that someone else take his place at Pemberton Place as he became more poorly. As the cancer spread, he underwent another operation to remove a lung before becoming an inpatient on the Hospice’s ward.
During Chris’s two months at the Hospice, Marion never left his side. She slept by him in their private room every night until he passed. He was 54. ‘The nurses gave their all for him and me,’ Marion recalled. “The day Chris died, they washed him, dressed him, and made him comfortable. They treated him with so much dignity.’
Marion remembered how her grief made her lose her appetite, yet one of the Hospice’s nurses brought some eggs on toast to their room and encouraged her to have a few bites. ‘It’s the little things they did that go such a long way and stick in your mind,’ Marion said. ‘It’s hard to explain how you feel when someone you love is given a terminal diagnosis; the calmness and tranquillity of Saint Francis Hospice were what we needed.’
Marion and Debbie are now taking a well-deserved rest from their epic walk, but hope to be back fundraising soon.
If six hours on your feet doesn’t sound like your idea of fun, but you’d still like to help people just like Chris, then you can do so by supporting Saint Francis Hospice’s Urgent Appeal. You can find out how you can do something incredible for local people living with life-limiting illnesses here.
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